Sounds like a great project and opportunity! You have been given much sage advice.
My approach would be to devote the space to audio, If wanting to add video, I would use my 2-channel system for it. Therefore devoting $$ to music as, I find that 2-channel can do wonders for video.
Initially, I would pay attention to consideration of ideal ratios for a dedicated room. The Harley article discusses this. Consider the 8' ceiling to be 'fixed' and the reference. Insulate between joists with two layers of 6" insulation covered by 5/8' drywall. The 17' dimension can be played with by furring out the concrete walls as desired. Insulate between wall material and concrete. Use 5/8" drywall for wall. Consider this the width. Frame in a cross wall to the desired length. Consider using the damping material between 2 sheets of drywall for this wall. Possibly only on the side of this wall interior to the audio room.
Given you are running Mono amps and a pre with digital source I would route 3 dedicated lines to the room for equipment, one to amps, one to pre, and one for digital front end.
I would consider placing a equipment rack for sources and pre at one side of listening chair. Mono amps on stands where best suits.
Have nothing between speakers.
Enjoy!