Monitors

OK. Looks like there is general acceptance over not using Monitoring gear for home Hi Fi.

So most of us will buy gear that is a 'step down' from monitor systems in order to enjoy hours of listening

OK

Can we first agree that few home audiophiles use studio monitoring equipment as it does not suit the home environment.

I think you may need to explain your thoughts here. All I'm seeing is an insult

Now to my initial question.

One ofen goes on improving the home system to give (for instance) better definition, impact, realism etc, etc. This seems a natural progression for audiophiles. ie heading towards everything that a monitor system has.

Is it possible to inadvertantly end up with a system that has the quality of a monitor system that one was trying to avoid in the first place and is therefore less enjoyable.

OK

I dont want to disagree with those listeners that like monitor systems. So can we sideline that discussion for another day in order not to distract from the question. Or you could start your own thread.

This is abut someone (me) who wants to avoid the monitor sound but ends up in just that situation.

"Are you, in essence, asking whether upgrading in pursuit of finer and finer levels of  resolution can lead to fatiguing sound?"

Yes, I guess I am.

Sorry good people- been away for a couple of days.

I listen near field and over the years have improved my system by inprovements to almost everything including valve power amps and valve DAC. The result has been an undoubted improvement in sound quality. But, I have arrived at a system best described as etched (thanks tubefuldude). 

Its so clear and lifelike, but imagine sitting 4ft from a soprano singing at full tilt. Wonderful realism but enough to take out your fillings - just like a monitor system in fact its almost totally unforgiving.

Where do I go for relaxation?

@Steakster

I use the term 'improvements' to convey to the reader that I have not just been box swapping, but have been moving up the food chain in terms of cost

"If you have valve amps and especially a valve DAC, I’m confused by your concerns about fatigue."

Me too

One complication is my tinnitus which is normally very quiet but triggered by any harsh system.

More often my listener fatgue is accompanied by this tinnitus and the whole experience makes me just want to turn it off.  Not good.