+2 ;-)
I'm continually amazed at the number of "audiophiles" who spend enormous amounts of money on equipment without having any idea of what they really want their systems to sound like. Forty years ago I heard a pair of ProAc Response 2's and a little Cary 300B amp, and I thought, that's what I want. A while later a friend sold me his ProAcs for a song, and I started experimenting with building my own tube amplifiers, and that's where I've pretty much been ever since. The system has improved as my building and tuning skills have improved, but even if I couldn't "do-it-myself," I'd be very happy with any number of vintage tube outfits. I've even heard some solid-state equipment I could live with. ;-)
Another sound I'll never forget was performing as a spoken-word artist in the midst of a symphony orchestra. The warmth, ease and relaxed power of that sound is something I always think back to when judging an audio system. It would be practically impossible to actually recreate in a home environment, but as a guide to what music really sounds like, it's been a touchstone for me.