I agree with you. I used to own a mid-level Rega and a friend owns one. I understand why lots of folks like them. But they are not my cup of tea. They always sound light and unsubstantial to me.
I would recommend looking at VPI, SME, and Linn. I owned a VPI Aries for a couple decades. I highly recommend one of their suspensionless models. I now own a contemporary Linn LP12. Also a great sprung turntable. Its upgradability is a fantastic feature. I started with a mid-level configuration and then upgraded to about the top of the line. If you’re one of those folks that wants the best, but can’t afford it... now. This is an excellent choice. Each of four upgrades were sonically very significant and cost effective. My dealer just charged me for the difference between what I had and the new component.