I guess to more directly address your question - exactly who said EL34 would have less lifespan here, unless you’re purposely biasing to run hot? That’s the first ever I’ve heard this. The bias on these amps is infintely adjustible per tube, and an EL34 can handle much more plate voltage than these amps throw at it. In fact the original Cronus and Atlas shipped with EL34 (I had an Atlas like this - it is a Cronus without the 12AU7 "preamp" tube and volume control).
As for tube sonics - Tung-Sol KT120’s give a perception of more powerful bass. Its midrange can be a little drier than with Gold Lion KT88, so probably not the right move for what you want. 6550 should not be a problem in these amps - very close to KT88. I’ve even used Tung-Sol 7581A (very close to a 6L6GC, not that close to 6550 / KT88) in Rogue amps - you’re probably approaching its plate voltage limits, but it worked in the ST100 and gave a bit of a more "classic" tube sound versus KT88 / KT100. A nice tube in the ST100, at least. Been years since I ran my old Atlas with British EL34, but that was pretty decent. The Mullards do what they can on these amps - they will never be "warm"-warm. You put those same Mullards in an Eico EF-87 and you get WARM-warm.