Another perspective. Go to a live concert of unamplified music. For me, I want maximum clarity/detail. Only the 1st row center will do. 98% of the other seats are sorely deficient for what I want in the sonic realm. You should enjoy the live concert mainly for the music. Then go back and tweak your audio system for what you want. You will get more enjoyment from your audio system in your carefully located chair than you will get from 90% of the seats in a live concert. Then you can get off the audio upgrade endless quest and enjoy your music either live or at home. I agree with much of what Jay says in this video.
Jay's "Ugly Truth" video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UkveZGS2dSI
Why does this get mentioned so rarely?
I've experienced the "dark side" and have never had the means to afford gear that's remotely close to the level that Jay focuses on.
What about you -- can you relate or have you always been able to maintain a healthy balance and avoid being overtaken by obsession?