EQ might be better bass to you, but I don't know if your wife would really think so. EQ basically makes for only slightly deeper bass, but what I would think she might really be looking for is not that, but some git up and go, particularly as volume is increased. The real answer then might be more bass dynamics than manipulated tone. That would point more to steakster's solution. You likely can each have it your own way with that approach. The bad news of course, is that you need to spend a little more and have even more equipment in the room.
I'm a married audiophile also. Your mission, should you choose to accept it: pitch the subwoofer scenario to your wife. And remember, if for any reason you are caught, I will disavow any knowledge of your actions. Good luck. This message will self destruct in 5 seconds.
I'm a married audiophile also. Your mission, should you choose to accept it: pitch the subwoofer scenario to your wife. And remember, if for any reason you are caught, I will disavow any knowledge of your actions. Good luck. This message will self destruct in 5 seconds.