When I was in the Army 50 years ago, I got hooked on “good” music by a friend. To me at that time it was a system of a Dual turntable, Sansui Sp100 speakers and a seperate tuner and amo/preamp combo.
It was light years above the all in one cheap turntable combo I had. An Akai reel to reel was added and I was in heaven.
It was a qunatum leap beyond what I had ever had or owned. Returning home, I lusted after the McIntosh gear, but it was Far beyong my means.
Over the years I has decent stereo, that always pleased me. Gear came and went, nothing seriously expensive, but I was always about the music, not the gear.
Fast forward to a successful career and disposible income. I make a killing in a side hobby of selling rare coins about 13 / 14 years ago and had the funds to but McIntosh 501s to drive 3.6 Maggies.
I Love the sound and the music in dimensions I had not experienced before, yet I love the same music no less. It is all about the music for me. I am just blessed to be able to afford some great gear!
Money has fiven me extra pleasure, but I was happy with decent gear before I coukd afford a more expensive system.
It is anagous to cars in a strange way. I was happy with a Honda Accord, but you will have to rip the Mercedes E400 out of my hands.
At the end of the day, it is about what you can afford in the things that are important to you. I would still be happy with my former toys, and appreciate them for what they were. I am just lucky to have othet choices.