After I installed the EDID emulator, and the system worked, I emailed OPPO tech services with my solution to the dropout problem. OPPO replied that they were aware of the dropout problem - and then went on to explain the real problem.
The REAL problem is that the OPPO player is polling the display for a high-bandwidth digital content (HDCP) copy protection response. When the set is "OFF" it will not respond to the OPPO query - and the OPPO drops 2-3 seconds of music because there is no response.
In the email, OPPO tech services said "We hope to fix the problem in a future firmware update." Well, "hoping" and knowing how to fix something are completely different - as "hoping" has no fixed date and no promise that a solution will be forthcoming.
If you want to actually fix the dropout problem, you can leave the display turned "ON" and it will respond to the OPPO with the HDCP information. When that happens, no dropout will occur.
If you want to listen to music with the display "OFF" - then the solution is the EDID emulator between the OPPO and the display. In my case, I inserted the EDID emulator between the McInstosh MX122 HDMI output and the Sony display.
The Atlona EDID emulator is 4K compliant and does not affect the image quality.