"If one chooses audio equipment by what sounds good at the moment you can end up on a wild goose chase."
ghdprentice, What an inappropriate statement to make. Nothing Ronboco said should lead anyone to say what you said: "But, as you choose components that way, your system can start sounding flashy and soulless…" Go look at Ronboco's system and room and get back to us.
Ronboco, based on the room and equipment you are using, I bet it sounds great. If it sounds good to you as well, then don't worry about what others' goals are. You ask a very good question: "Are you saying studio music can somehow be made to sound like symphony instruments?" That's a good question for a recording engineer. I bet George Martin, recording wizard for the Beatles, or the genious Brian Wilson would give you a very quick no. You have no trouble identifying the voices or the instruments in these recordings and they more than likely sound better than their live performances of the same music. I would venture to say that if you are satisfied with what you hear listening to various genres of recorded music on your system, it would approximate very closely an unamplified live music event. Don't we all know what a human voice or a piano or a crashing cymbal should sound like?