In answer to your earlier question about losing bass energy, it's not an open ended room that will make the bass escape; that'll let the longer bass waves form and roll back and forth. What makes you lose bass is how porous and/or flexible the floor and walls are. You'll get better bass, for example, in a masonry room that contains the full integrity of the bass waves than on a suspended floor with wood frame walls that lets the bass energy leak out of the room.
Now that we know your needs better, it looks like you'll want to pick a speaker that gives you the holographic imaging you're looking for first and foremost. Since many of the speakers you mention have average to slightly lower sensitivity AND you like to listen loud, you *may* need a more powerful amplifier (but maybe not). You won't know until you try it out.
If you can find a speaker that images the way you like and has a sensitivity of 90dB or above, your 100 wpc should be plenty, even for loud listening. I have a pair of 91 dB sensitive speakers in an open architecture living space, and my 85 wpc (but very high current) amp is plenty to give me good volume for rock, big band, or large scale bombastic orchestra.