I only listen to my "main" system a couple hours a week, sometimes more, sometimes not at all. Does that mean I'm not a music lover?
I do have a nice (to me) system in my bedroom that gets used every evening/night.
Also, there's the HT system in the family room. If the wife is out running errands or at an appointment it's playing music.
There's always the dedicated headphone setup...
FWIW, I attempt to play the guitar and keyboards. There are only so many hours in a day, even when retired.