As you have found out, the stand can have a profound effect on the sound. Remember that you dialed in the speakers on the old stand for best results and you probably placed the new ones in the exact same place. You have to start over with placement. Also, the MRs are not difficult to fill if you use dry cat litter instead of sand, which is a PITA.
Also, you need to experiment with the interface between the stand and the speaker. If you have kids, you probably want to use Blu Tak, which prevents the speakers from being knocked off the stands, but if that's not a problem, you should also try other things like Herbies Black Dots or small wood blocks, until you find something that works.
While every system is unique, and it's difficult to know how a speaker will click with a room, I've never heard a flimsy stand sound better than a good one. If the flimsy one gives better bass response, you may have a real boom problem in the room and the cheap stand is countering it by inhibiting the full bass response of the speaker. Now you put it up on the better stand and the bass is more pronounced, which is muddying up the rest of the spectrum. Good luck sorting it all out and try to have fun experimenting.
Also, you need to experiment with the interface between the stand and the speaker. If you have kids, you probably want to use Blu Tak, which prevents the speakers from being knocked off the stands, but if that's not a problem, you should also try other things like Herbies Black Dots or small wood blocks, until you find something that works.
While every system is unique, and it's difficult to know how a speaker will click with a room, I've never heard a flimsy stand sound better than a good one. If the flimsy one gives better bass response, you may have a real boom problem in the room and the cheap stand is countering it by inhibiting the full bass response of the speaker. Now you put it up on the better stand and the bass is more pronounced, which is muddying up the rest of the spectrum. Good luck sorting it all out and try to have fun experimenting.