Glad to hear of your journey.
Discussions about affordability are heated sometimes because they often trigger people's pride or insecurities about their identity, if that identity is tied to wealth.
It's a shame, because I have been getting to know really experienced audiophiles and journalists of hifi a bit. They all agree with the following statement: "I'd rather have a $2k system in a good room than a $100k system in a bad room."
Since improving room acoustics -- somehow -- is not nearly as pricy as most gear, good sound is much more affordable than many people really know.