I have heard the 390, 380, and transparent cables together, the Classe (flagship monoblocks and CAM350) and B&W together, but not the Wilson Audio and VTL. I believe what you heard was mainly the effects of the amp. Classe amps tend not to be the warmest nor the champs at macrodynamics (in its price range). I do remember them revealing spatial details very well though.
Some people run the 7s with low power tubes so I would think 100W is more than sufficient, although having never heard the Wilsons I can't be sure. You can look into Manley amps as well. I think they combine refinement, warmth, and tube power for their price very well. I don't think they're as good as the Lamms but you do have to pay more. It certainly gives you a different combination of sonic attributes nonetheless.
Some people run the 7s with low power tubes so I would think 100W is more than sufficient, although having never heard the Wilsons I can't be sure. You can look into Manley amps as well. I think they combine refinement, warmth, and tube power for their price very well. I don't think they're as good as the Lamms but you do have to pay more. It certainly gives you a different combination of sonic attributes nonetheless.