Doe you enjoy your listening to music and your system more with others or alone?


It’s no doubt that us as Audiophiles spend a lot of time listening to music by ourselves. It’s just the way
it’s, a hobby most others don’t understand. So do we prefer to listen by ourselves or is it more enjoyable 
with others? For myself, I generally enjoy listening by myself. Usually when another Audiophile friend is over listening it becomes more about the sound ( system ) than the music. Also, they only want to hear
music that brings out the best in the system and for myself let’s just listen to what’s playing. 
Non-Audiophiles tend to get bored easily if they don’t like the music, and can be even more picky about
what music you play for them. Non-Audiophiles put no value in the sound. They only want to hear their favorite music and that can be even more frustrating. At least acknowledge it ( sound ) even if you can’t hear the difference.
For myself it’s more enjoyable alone, but that doesn’t mean all the time, or does it?

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I generally have something playing, but I'm lucky to have that option.  A 'live/work' situation gives one that option....especially when one's half of the management....;)
Relatives are either on the West coast or 3 states away and I can't play at those levels. (*damn!*) *L*
"Serious Listening Hour" is generally late, with no distractions.  That can be for critque' or just for the 'ell of it, enjoying the freak fruit of my endeavours...
The rare person who gets a demo is either easily impressed because they've never heard anything like it.  Most are hardly what I'd call 'audiophiles' in the sense of never being around enough 'things esoteric' to have a opinion other than being impressed by the degree of my interest and involvement....
Spouse is my best critic at this point....but she prefers a level of simplicity in 'operation'.  That's one reason for multiple systems....;)
Works in progress....*G*
Play often, J.
@gents & tlong1958..."Hell is other humans"? *L*

It's rare to run into audiophiles in the 'real world', imh experience...
As for the 'f/m dear', spouse is my only 'regular', and she has her own take on what she likes and likes to listen to as well....

We compromise...she tolerates subwoof bass lines, and I tolerate her 'volume to 12' on occasion....*G*

A recent 'outburst' of late '50's and early '60's  'popular music' threw her into laughs when I not only recognised 3/4's of what played.

That I knew the parodies of some of them 'blew her mind'.

"Not all of them were well-loved by some, y'know...."

"My boyfriend's back, and you're going to be in trouble...(hey la, etc.)
He's psychotic as hell, and likes to use his shovel...."

Mowed Down Town....;)
@geoffkait , that's ok....we all have those 'interior dialogs'...*S*

It's when you answer yourself, out loud, in a voice that isn't yours....nor is it one you could manage to mimic....

First sign of M.I.; Multiple Identities.....'the Waster'

It's when you find yourself listening to something that you've no awareness of cueing it up, much less owning it in the first place...

You may ask yourself, "How did I get here?!" ;)