Hi Jay-
Yes, certainly, we have all been through periods like this or at least most people have. I have also found that when I'm physically sick - flu, cold, strep - I do not want to listen to music and when I flip on the stereo habitually that is the sign that I'm feeling better.
In terms of mood affecting desire for music, I won't go into the deep advice some are providing - I do think much of it is good advice -- but I will stay a level shallower. I have found that it's not a bad time to look for some music that speaks to your current mood rather than to try to jam in your otherwise favorite genres into a mood where they don't fit.
In other words, if you are having trouble relaxing and experiencing a lot of anxiety, try Indian or Middle Eastern or North African music, or another kind of ambient-related genre. See if you can find something that speaks to you now.
Good luck and hope you are feeling better soon, and that your family issues work out!