All great info people!! I know that I do not need an angle DIN connector, as the tonearm sits in a arm hole on the plinth that has no angle path. The DIN on the arm (image below) is pointing straight down and the shaft under the table is a straight shaft. The plinth on the Xtension 10 is about 2" thick and it looks to have good clearance around the hole.
Now its just a matter of what brand I buy.....But the key for me and my Lyra Kleos is must be very low cap cable, less than 100pF for sure in a meter cable.