I’ve spent time here and at ASR since I got back into the hobby. I’ll answer a little more broadly: I’ve learned a ton at ASR, not just from Amir, but people like Floyd Toole, Earl Geddes and JJ Johnson, all of whom participate there. ASR introduced me to a mountain of published research on audiology and audio engineering that served to fill me in on debates that started in my earlier audiophile phase (1980s). Those findings, and insistence on controlled evidence for claims, form the foundation of beliefs on which ASR folks debate. If you don’t think that’s the way to audio satisfaction, it’s fine, but it doesn’t make sense to go over to ASR, make unverifiable claims repeatedly and hope...something happens. I can certainly see how that ends in frustration and hot tempers.
Both places are rough on those who espouse the "wrong" views. If you suggest here that people do controlled, blind tests, you’ll be jumped on. If you go to ASR and say "DACs sound wildly different because I heard it", they will jump on you. Each place has its ethos.
My own beliefs are that more companies should provide a proper suite of measurements. @amir_asr does that, with a lot of effort, and it has value. Much more value in that than a series of opinions about sound in different rooms with different recordings. Amir’s klippel analysis of speakers, and the guidance on EQ available on the site, have made much more difference to my listening than endlessly swapping amps and DACs ever did. And yes, one of my systems has a raspberry pi running ROPIEEXL as a streamer to an RME ADI-2 DAC, feeding a Purifi-based amp. All ASR-endorsed solutions that I have enjoyed long-term and are anything but "sterile", IMO. I also bought a second-hand pair of Revel f228be speakers due to ASR, for a difficult room, and it was a fantastic solution. There are lots of ASR folks with similar stories.
Claims that "ASR only cares about measurements", that they "don’t listen to music", and that the site is full of people disappointed in their sterile/unreliable gear are clearly false, and only serve to demonstrate someone hasn’t bothered to look around the site. That just tells me they made up something that would sound plausible to partisans and ran with it. The longest thread on ASR is "what are you listening to now", and I’ve participated in discussions of 20th century music and jazz history there. I attend live performances about once a week on average, and several of my favorite participants on ASR are professional musicians and audio engineers.
When I was more active here, this place tolerated a few obvious snake-oil merchants, who tend to hang around and crap on people about how their equipment isn’t resolving enough, they haven’t been "in audio" long enough, how they don’t understand the implications of quantum theory on audio (eyeroll), etc. It wasn’t the whole experience, but I found that, in particular, extremely unpleasant, I also found the moderation haphazard at best. so this is my first post here in years, while I’ve been active at ASR since I found it.
It would be really interesting for representatives of the two sites to cooperate on some controlled testing to prove or disprove some of the claims not supported in the literature. But I mostly gave up on that happening ages ago.