Your comparison achieved the results I would have predicted. Cary is a swiss army knife with high power. Decware keeps it very simple, touches the signal as little as possible, and stays lower power.
I suggest instead of working on the Cary, you shop for more sensitive speakers and maybe even go SET. I don't even do push pull any more. I had a ZMA, it was excellent, but couldn't match an SET. push pull is a compromise but many make it because it is better than SS and their speakers don't support SET.
Jerry