To your date code question: I think it's not really relevant as tubes from the same batch can vary by a LOT. I read that manufacturers think 5% variance is fine. Try 5% louder in your left channel and me that me 5% is fine. :)
I once replaced a pair of Sovtek 6550s that were damaged by red plating. I bought NOS Sovteks that were matched. Popped them in and viola! Louder on the left. Another tube- a Sylvania BH7A was causing the red plating. I replaced it with NOS. Soon after the right channel BH7A started acting up. I realized that the best practices way to have avoided all this wasted time and money was to buy a whole tube set already matched from my manufacturer. "Your first loss is your least loss"