ehollander OP
My system is made of Jolida 302 integrated tube amp
This is probably your problem, this amp only needs 500mV (0.5v) in for full 50watt output.
The Jolida 302 is just a poweramp, with a passive volume control on the input, the gain could be lowered by a competent tube tech by changing the feedback resistor R5, but then C2 will have to change also so the filtering is the same. A good tech could do this in an 1hr and parts are a couple of dollars.
http://www.drtube.com/schematics/jolida/sj-502a.gif
Or you can go the ugly way which can cause impedance matching problems that aren’t dangerous, and get two inline rca to rca attenuator.
http://www.rothwellaudioproducts.co.uk/html/attenuators.html
Cheers George