I bought and sold a several components on usaudiomart. It's about communication, you pretty much have to figure out if the person on the other end is trustworthy. Ask some questions that aren't realistic but the responses will be telling:
"I will be in the area, can I listen to it?"
If the response is: "it's in the shed, I just had surgery, I can't get up, well.... why would his/her priority be to sell this thing."