Good post OP. I am quietly shopping but with a wider price range and instead just focusing on what appeals to my ear in relation to cost. There are many brands online but hard to find them local to listen to, and ordering and return shipping is too much work for me if I don't like them since the speakers can weigh over 60 lbs each. I am trying to focus on the brands that I can listen to before I buy, which is hugely important for speakers. I seem to be leaning to the known brands for resale and repair, but those are less of a concern. Sound is the most important consideration and hearing is knowing. IMO, once you verify something is well made and will last, just focus on what sounds good to you regardless of if it is a large brand or boutique based listening. I think the bottle neck will be what you can find to listen to. When we/I go on vacation, I always try to visit a store or two to expand what I can listen to.
To the other posters, great input and made me think of a few new things and reinforce some others.