best racks,amp stands etc.

Hi Goners,

I am lost in the jungle of racks,amp stands,top shelves etc...

HELP!!!
Looking for strength,flexibility,dampening,[NOT DEADING!] vibration isolation and WAF...:-)
I have 2 80+lb tt's ,3 stage pre/phono, 4 mono's, 4 box digital,tuner,headamp and active crossover.
Of course i would like this to be priced somewhat SANE! Have had Finite Elemente Pagoda Ref's and do not want to spend that much this time around.

Thanks to all and any pics or links are more then welcome.