"audiophiles listen to their equipment"

Sorry. Spell check k got me again.  Cues not queues.  

I agree and admit that the sound of an audiophile system is “inseparable from the music”.  For me, it is because the nuances of sound reproduction of an audiophile system, especially timbral accuracy, image density, micro-dynamics, macro-dynamics, and retrieval of ambient queues, bring me closer to memories of lithe sound of concerts I attended.  However, I have two listening modes.  Critical listening is reserved for system analysis, especially when contemplating a spend for new equipment, or when demonstrating my system to others.  In this mode I focus on the sound of the equipment.  I estimate I am only in critical listening mode 10% of the time.  90% of the time I am in musical appreciation (enjoyment) mode, not listening to equipment but rather to the composition and performance.  There was a time in my life when I focused only on the equipment, leading to a feeling of never being satisfied.  I have learned, or perhaps it is just an old age maturation process, where I am satisfied with my system and simply enjoy the music.