I can't speak for the Cary CDP's, but I can tell you as a past owner of the Jolida 100A that it is not remotely close to being in the same league as the Audio Aero Capitol 24/192 (my current CDP). I'm not a big believer in "giant killer" titles that some pcs of gear receive... I think in most cases, you get what you pay for.
What is your budget?
What is your budget?