When i use the XLR connection from the DAC to AMP its 6DB louder than SE. Was my first clue that the Luxman wasnt truly balanced.
XLR carries a hot signal on one conductor and an inverted hot signal on another conductor. A diff amp compares the two signals and amplifies the difference. A +5 volt compared to -5 volt is a difference of 10 volts. That's the 6 dB gain.