Have heard the Ref 3 and think they're great. Haven't heard the Stands BUT my initial advise would be, if they're still breaking in, wait before buying any stands, as the midrange and sound stage may just develop into what you're looking for without the need for the stands, and by already thinking of the purchase you may be biasing your listening (i.e. "Well, it sounds good, but I know of these stands that...").
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