I generally read when I am listening. When I was a teenager in the early seventies I wanted some music in the background when I studied so I gravitated to the unplayed Classical Music in the home since my favorite what is now considered Classic Rock was distracting. Eventually I began to love the Classical and then that became distracting. When I had to really bear down and concentrate, particularly in undergrad and then Medical School, it was in a quiet library. Now I listen to music constantly. Internet Radio is playing in the background currently. When we have guests staying with us my wife forbids the radio during breakfast and the house just sounds to quiet.
I agree with @mickeyb that while the kids are growing it’s hard to relegate your listening to a dedicated time since we never have any personal time