I am not familiar with your amp and maybe this is tossing an unnecessary hang grenade into the debate for you but there are other, somewhat esoteric tubes that are in the middle and may work for you.
Have you looked at something like the Emission Labs 300B Mesh 2.5v or PX4 or PX25. In the case of the 300B 2.5v it is a drop in replacement for a 2A3 and is a middle ground between the two tubes. It is more detailed and linear than a 300B but not to the extreme of a 2A3. PX4 and PX25 are in the middle with the PX4 closer to a 2A3 and PX25 closer to a 300B.
Years ago Dick Olsher reviewed a PX25 amp and referred to it as the closet thing to "velvet in a bottle" he had ever heard. Tubes that have characteristics of both could present and ideal compromise.
Full disclosure, I am one of the two importers of Emission Labs tubes. Not just trying to sell you tubes (I make nothing on them). Just think it was an interesting provocation.