Sensitive ears to speakers. Help!!!

You might try a pair of Biro L/1's. I own a pair and they aren't as superdetailed as some stuff I've heard. They do use metal domes but I wouldn't let that stop you from giving them a try. Personally, I don't think that they are the god of all speakers, but I haven't really heard anything that much better, especially for the money. I've had my pair now for over a year which is an achievement for me. I'm running them with all Van alstine electronics in a dedicated listening room with full acoustical treatment. The nice thing with these is if you want more detail, buy better equipment and the speakers will reproduce it without ever being harsh or grainy. And the bass is ultra-tight; but of course most decent speakers would be with 160 watts of hybrid tube-mosfet circuitry running it and four 16" by 3' bass traps. Don't buy a speaker by the drivers. Yes, there are generalizations that can be made, but the quality of the engineering can make drivers perform in ways one wouldn't normally expect. I believe www.avahifi.com has a 30 day return.

You need to list your equipment and room acoustics. Your overly sensitive ears may also be a sign of hearing damage, which might be a slim possiblity. Hopefully, that's not the case.

This is JEL. For those who have asked for my components: VTL ST150 TUBE AMP, VTL 2.5 PRE-AMP, BEL CANTO DAC 1, PIONEER 525 DVD PLAYER USED AS TRASPORT, JUST PURCHASED HALES TRANSCENDENCE 5 SPEAKERS, CABLES HARMONIC TECH AND ANALYSIS PLUS. THE HALES ARE GREAT BUT MY EARS GO CRAZY. SOMETIMES FEELS LIKE A VACCUM AND WEIRD FEELING. HARD TO EXPLAIN. NOT 100% BROKEN IN YET, MAYBE HALF WAY. I HAVE A PAIR OF OLD SPICA ANGELUS. NOT AS DETAILED (NEED A GOOD SUB TOO) BUT MY EARS DON'T FUSS. IS THERE A HAPPY MIDDLE??

This is JEL again. Forgot to mention room. 16'Wx25'L9'H. with carpet and plenty of curtains on the 25' length sides. This should cut down on the brightness.

Ekmaia, yes, I'm referring to the D21/2 tweeters. I feel that they're better than the Esotec, except maybe in the very bottom of their range. The Esotar has been a little too aggressively metallic sounding, in my experience. It is extremely dynamic, though. However, I'm about to try another model that might actually be better than the Esotar tweeter dynamics wise, and will hopefully be close to the Revelator smoothness wise, and it's cheaper to boot...............EZMERALDA, I agree that execution is the most improtant thing in speaker design, to a point. However, if you want the absolute best performance, you do indeed need to shop "by the drivers", because they're what's transducing the electrical into mechanical energy, and are the last determining factor in how much performance can be achieved by the speaker system as a whole. This cannot be denied, ask any designer in the industry. Otherwise, the best speakers would use cheap and ineffectual frivers, which NONE of them do.