Who has the Sickness, the Phile or the Non-phile?


So often I find myself resenting the fact that there are only so many hours to listen to HiFi and I think of those that don't hold this resentment.

I used to think anyone who wasn't obsessive simply lacked exposure, but even though I have introduced many, I have discovered no takers.

At audiophile club meeting it seems to me that the attendees are mostly gear-heads and posers; they say "Ooo & Ahhhh" to anything presented and you can see 1 or 2, maybe 3 in the seats nonchalantly looking over in the direction of the ooo-ers and Ahhh-ers; those few get it. And before anyone is defensive because they know, lashes out that I'm this or that....I don't care. These are obviously my opinions and I'm looking for the opinions of others On The  Question  At  Hand  and not whether or not I am a deluded self important snob.

So, if it is not a lack of exposure, is it a lack of ability?

Surely we are all different, short, tall, smart, obtuse, near sighted, far sighted. Are the ears and or the brains of an audiophile just wired differently than others? Can non audiophiles just not hear what we hear?

Was it childhood exposure that caused this difference in wiring? My father had Altec Voice of the Theater horns and the accompanying gear. Was that it, being exposed to HIFi during brain development? My daughter gets it and boy was she pissed when I sold my VPI TT. I never got along with my father, but was he responsible for my affliction by introducing me to superior sound as an infant?

And, who are the sick ones, the philes or the non-philes?

 

TD

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If the % of audiophiles are small the % of acoustic philes are even smaller. I count myself as a member of acoustic-phile. It is much less expensive and much more pleasing to my ears.

I'm an almost-exclusively-classical-music listener.  Even if I knew any other audiophiles or audiophile clubs, their various musical tastes would undoubtedly send me reeling out of the room in disgust.  I've learned long ago that whatever you might recommend to others, they aren't likely to hear or perceive anything the way you do.  And though I live with somebody I dearly love, I wouldn't dream of subjecting her to my very exclusive taste in music...which is why I've put together the best possible headphone-only system I can barely afford.  When she fires-up some crappy old pop tunes on YouTube, I just grin and bear it, and wait till she gets it out of her system.  That's what love will do.  She has an idea of the many thousands of dollars I've spent on my headphone rig...and yet has never had the slightest desire to have a listen.  

So...I don't know if being an audiophile is a "disease" or not, but it seem to be a fairly solitary pursuit these days.  Anyway, I'm happy with it and need no validation from others.

Personally I've been listening to music since I was a kid. My first hi-fi system was a transistor radio my parents gave me when I was six. Still makes me smile when I think of listening to Brown Eyed Girl, Red Rubber Ball on that tiny system. My mom used to sit alone at night in the dark and listen to Simon & Garfunkel albums on a Magnavox console system. My childhood friends and I used to sit on the curb and sing Jackson Browne, Eagles, Linda Ronstadt. My first car had a great sound system. My best friend still reminds me I used to make her sit in the backseat and help me balance things just right! We had Led Zeppelin, Supertramp (yep, bloody well right) blasting while driving. In college I bought my first system a Bang&Olufsen quad reciever with 4 B&O speakers. From there a friend at the Rocket Ranch introduced me to very high end Magnepan speakers (taller than me). I've been a planar person ever since. And a tube person for just about as long. Yes I used to be a rocket scientist, my degree is in Electrical Engineering, chose that major because I wanted to be able to build my own system. Did I mention I'm a woman. Yep that's right there are more than zero women who love hi-fi, and no I'm not the only one.
I cannot tell you how many dozens of times over the years I've had salesmen man-splain me all that hi-fi tech stuff. I also cannot tell you how many times I smiled and walked away. Being a woman engineer I am very used to the old attitudes, women don't know anything about hi-fi, cars, sports etc ad nauseum... And yes to enjoy this hobby you do have to endure all the cracks about "chasing skirts", women don't listen to high end stereo, my wife thinks I'm crazy and on an on. 
Luckily times have changed and guys in their 40's and below don't carry around all those old tropes. Makes it easier to share your passion for this 1% hobby.
Whether people listen like those of us here, or through their tiny bluetooth speaker, the important thing is they are listening. Music is common ground for almost all humanity. Not the type of music or the cost of your system. Music soothes the vast majority of souls. So let the label game rest, worry not, kick back and enjoy your passion. Passion after all comes in a wide selection of choices.