It is hard to disagree with the proposition that when we post on this forum we should be respectful of each others’ experiences, even when they are diametrically opposed to our own. But sometimes it seems to me that some people post on public forums solely for the purpose of getting others to confirm their views (just as some trolls post solely to be contradictory, or show supposed “superiority”). And sometimes these people seem a little defensive even when someone respectfully posts -on a public forum - a different experience or opinion.
@hilde45 - I love your baking analogy btw.