Who has the Sickness, the Phile or the Non-phile?


So often I find myself resenting the fact that there are only so many hours to listen to HiFi and I think of those that don't hold this resentment.

I used to think anyone who wasn't obsessive simply lacked exposure, but even though I have introduced many, I have discovered no takers.

At audiophile club meeting it seems to me that the attendees are mostly gear-heads and posers; they say "Ooo & Ahhhh" to anything presented and you can see 1 or 2, maybe 3 in the seats nonchalantly looking over in the direction of the ooo-ers and Ahhh-ers; those few get it. And before anyone is defensive because they know, lashes out that I'm this or that....I don't care. These are obviously my opinions and I'm looking for the opinions of others On The  Question  At  Hand  and not whether or not I am a deluded self important snob.

So, if it is not a lack of exposure, is it a lack of ability?

Surely we are all different, short, tall, smart, obtuse, near sighted, far sighted. Are the ears and or the brains of an audiophile just wired differently than others? Can non audiophiles just not hear what we hear?

Was it childhood exposure that caused this difference in wiring? My father had Altec Voice of the Theater horns and the accompanying gear. Was that it, being exposed to HIFi during brain development? My daughter gets it and boy was she pissed when I sold my VPI TT. I never got along with my father, but was he responsible for my affliction by introducing me to superior sound as an infant?

And, who are the sick ones, the philes or the non-philes?

 

TD

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I’m lucky to have tin ears. My system sounds good to me, but my suv system does too… and my Bluetooth speaker.

I’ll basically eat anything, too. So don’t cry if you burn the pork chops, I think charcoal is good for my complexion. Sometimes I burn her food, we trade off.

Hope everybody’s having relaxing Sunday! Fun thread!

 

My son gave me a pair of B&O headphones he was not using, and I’m  impressed at how great they sound. I’m sure the rabbit hole goes much deeper in fidelity, but it struck me at how comparatively easy it would be to achieve awesome sound and have no furniture hassles, room treatment, dedicated nothing, especially since I listen alone when I am listening most critically. 

 

Growing up with little, I always dreamed of an expensive stereo, and other possessions that let others know I had made it, it just was not the road for me. These days my faith drives me to love others deeply, and myself less, and at  this moment, I’m tearfully grateful I ended up here. Take my stuff, not my peace!
 

I hope you all find peace with stereos and otherwise!
 

 

My sweetheart is a retired career music educator, she listens to Planets on her iPhone speaker while she curls her hair. 
 

The oldest son is a senior music major (saxophone) and has a Bluetooth speaker… somewhere. I’m listening to him play jazz now, I don’t need a blind test to know my stereo doesn’t sound like him. 
 

Though they wouldn’t say it, I can’t help but feel they know, live is live, otherwise a car radio is fine, haha. 

@milo0812 

They mansplain to me, too. I’m a 225lb fire hydrant with a full beard. No degree at all…..