So, I had a similar issue: Mac Amp, Coincident speakers, Oppo 105 (that works flawlessly.The big difference is that I use a pre-pro. My Emotiva has a great pass through feature. When it's off, the source, satellite, goes directly through the TV. As soon as I turn on the Emotiva, everything turns on and I have theater.
My thoughts: The Oppo is a great player, the volume is mediocre and I keep the output fixed, the DAC is also mediocre. Emotiva's DAC is somewhat better. (My Hugo is clearly better for streaming, Tidal or computer audio).
Keep everything. Buy a Samsung or Sony BlueRay player. Spend some decent money on a pre-pro with pass through. Emotiva is great. Anthem is even better. Your wife can ignore all of your toys and watch tv when she pleases.
My thoughts: The Oppo is a great player, the volume is mediocre and I keep the output fixed, the DAC is also mediocre. Emotiva's DAC is somewhat better. (My Hugo is clearly better for streaming, Tidal or computer audio).
Keep everything. Buy a Samsung or Sony BlueRay player. Spend some decent money on a pre-pro with pass through. Emotiva is great. Anthem is even better. Your wife can ignore all of your toys and watch tv when she pleases.