Too many variable here: Live: listening to Pat Methany or Dave Brubeck sons at the Lobero in Santa Barbara is vastly different from listening to Santana in Las Vegas or at the Microsoft theater. In the live setting the venue is almost more significant or as significant as the artist; as is the live sound engineer.
I thought I'd enjoy Zak Brown band live but the Irvine Amphitheater had the worst sound dynamics ever; the band sure seemed to play their hearts out, but the sound production was awful. At one concert in Vegas the volume was so loud that I found it better to stand in the lobby or risk going deaf. Makes me wonder if many Rock engineers are deaf.
At home; the recording quality and format takes precedence maybe more than the artist. Assuming your space and equipment are dialed in; At home you control the volume and music selection; above 100dB you may not enjoy the music for long but you have the volume control music selection at your finger tips.