I listen to the music because of the way a piece can move me. The gear exposes all new layers I never fully appreciated until now. Whether it's an SG, French Horn, voice, or the decay of a cymbal, I'm hearing old favorites in a completely new way. Attention to the gear has provided me with a sonic kaleidoscope to examine. Wouldn't trade it for anything.
What do you say to your audiophile friends who say you just listen to your equipment more
Than your music. I have my retort but let me hear yours. Not everybody understands us. Thanks.