The only ones that might fit your needs would be used Integra 9.8 or 9.9 or used Onkyo 885 or 886. These prepros will get you all the codecs and have RCA and XLR outputs. Nothing new will fit your budget.
Another option, as long as all your devices can convert to LPCM (most modern decent ones do) is : http://www.lenexpo-electronics.com/Atlona-HDMI-1.3-Audio-De-Embedder-p-17801.html
Kal
Another option, as long as all your devices can convert to LPCM (most modern decent ones do) is : http://www.lenexpo-electronics.com/Atlona-HDMI-1.3-Audio-De-Embedder-p-17801.html
Kal