Try plugging the amp and the digital into the wall to rule out the power conditioner.
Does the Sony CD player have a two prong plug or three? If it is a two prong plug all you are doing is lifting the ground, which is why the hissing disappears.
The problem could be in the XLR connections of the digital sources. If the ground is tied to signal or circuit ground, it may cause noise problems and picked up by high gain amplifiers. XLR grounds should only be attached to the chassis, but some designers think otherwise.