I own the VR4jr, but have listened to the VR4 SR extensively as it is on my short list for upgrade. I beleive the VS speakers are very muscial and will draw you into the music like few other speakers and will give you incredible sound. Pairing them with a tube preamp and good solid state amp will give you magic ! VS speakers are very revealing and as such upstream components need to be scrutinized. But I assume if you are willing to drop 8-12K on speakers, then probably you will not be running these with a Yamaha receiver.
As far as Totem goes, since I am in Canada I have numerous Totem dealers around here and they can be had on the cheap - that is compared to other offerings. As such I had the Totem Forests for about 6 months quite a few years ago when looking for my holy grail and althought they did lots of things right they were very fatiguing. Something I never have with my VS. I don't think they use soft dome tweeters. Which kills it for me right away these days. The Winds IMO are a little better... I heard them at the dealers and at the last Montreal show and they were not as bright as the Forests but even with a Plinus amp I could tell long term listening would be problematic - for me anyway. Personally I would go with Totem for home theater and VS for 2 channel. YMMV
As far as Totem goes, since I am in Canada I have numerous Totem dealers around here and they can be had on the cheap - that is compared to other offerings. As such I had the Totem Forests for about 6 months quite a few years ago when looking for my holy grail and althought they did lots of things right they were very fatiguing. Something I never have with my VS. I don't think they use soft dome tweeters. Which kills it for me right away these days. The Winds IMO are a little better... I heard them at the dealers and at the last Montreal show and they were not as bright as the Forests but even with a Plinus amp I could tell long term listening would be problematic - for me anyway. Personally I would go with Totem for home theater and VS for 2 channel. YMMV