yeah, it works great. it gives you terrific flexibility, as you know.
i use xlr outs to feed the mid/treble signal to one amp and the rca to feed another bass amp so that i'm sending a full range signal everywhere.
i would have thought, though, that xlrs to the monitors would sound better - quieter, at least (in my experience, it's harder to tell the difference between xlr and rca on a bass feed), but it sounds like you have specific reasons to run rcas to them.
i use xlr outs to feed the mid/treble signal to one amp and the rca to feed another bass amp so that i'm sending a full range signal everywhere.
i would have thought, though, that xlrs to the monitors would sound better - quieter, at least (in my experience, it's harder to tell the difference between xlr and rca on a bass feed), but it sounds like you have specific reasons to run rcas to them.