I think you may be on to something here. The never ending upgrade path has been an interesting journey, where, at first, improvements made good recordings sound so much better, but bad ones became worse. But as I drastically improved my digital source, good recordings sound even more detailed and refined, while at the same time, the bad ones become more enjoyable, less harsh. There is a very interesting review here on Audiogon that really addresses this issue in a review of Triangle Volante speakers.
http://forum.audiogon.com/cgi-bin/fr.pl?rspkr&1116803821&read&keyw&zztriangle
http://forum.audiogon.com/cgi-bin/fr.pl?rspkr&1116803821&read&keyw&zztriangle