Dear Cousin: You don't have to " find " anything ( like Tom say ), everything you need for a proper balanced connection is on the Neutrik connector and your cable.
Dear Cousinbilly1: My advise is that you buy Neutrik connectors where you will use Pin 2 for ( + ), Pin 3 ( - ), Pin 1 disconnected and the cable shield to the Neutrik " ground " pin ( other than 1,2 and 3 ).
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