If your headphones are loud enough to disturb the neighbors...you're going to make yourself deaf.
The "audiophile gear" I REALLY need is a damn house.
I'm here in my apartment trying to enjoy the Coachella streams and feeling self-conscious about 30 measly watts because my always-quiet neighbors have their front door open trying to enjoy a beautiful spring day. I need a house out in the middle of nowhere so I can actually turn up without bothering people.