Agree completely with Kirkus and Audiofeil.
It doesn't sound to me like anything's wrong with your rig or your setup, though it can't hurt to check. Everything you described is normal, including the need for care when cueing.
Your new stylus probably has a sharper point than the previous ones, so it experiences more friction when lowered onto a spinning *flat* surface. More friction = more skating = ZOOM! goes the arm inward. Perfectly normal and perfectly irrelevant, as Kirkus explained.
BTW, your ears are correct - trust them. The less A/S you can use (consistent with clean tracking) the better your cartridge can do its job. A/S pulls outward on the arm, which presses the cantilever against the cartridge's soft, internal suspension. One guess how that effects HF extension, speed and the cantilever's ability to respond to the subtler waveforms in the groove. (Excessive VTF has the same effect, so you should set that by ear as well.)
It doesn't sound to me like anything's wrong with your rig or your setup, though it can't hurt to check. Everything you described is normal, including the need for care when cueing.
Your new stylus probably has a sharper point than the previous ones, so it experiences more friction when lowered onto a spinning *flat* surface. More friction = more skating = ZOOM! goes the arm inward. Perfectly normal and perfectly irrelevant, as Kirkus explained.
BTW, your ears are correct - trust them. The less A/S you can use (consistent with clean tracking) the better your cartridge can do its job. A/S pulls outward on the arm, which presses the cantilever against the cartridge's soft, internal suspension. One guess how that effects HF extension, speed and the cantilever's ability to respond to the subtler waveforms in the groove. (Excessive VTF has the same effect, so you should set that by ear as well.)