How about the GoldenEar Triton ones for $5k (or $8k if you want to spring for the new Triton reference).
I have them in my living room, with the built in subs they have dynamic range, and they certainly seem to disappear from the soundstage to me.
I have them in my living room, with the built in subs they have dynamic range, and they certainly seem to disappear from the soundstage to me.