Everyone needs to go to another live concert and ask this question (assuming the sound system is a good one) Why does this sound better to me. Why does this feel better to me. Jazz in a smaller venue is perfect. The idea is to recreate that sound and that feel in your room. Having a room longer than 30 feet is a big help but not mandatory. A lot of systems have the capability of doing this. What is usually missing is the bass. It requires a lot more than people realize, a lot more speaker and a lot more power. I just get there using 7000 watts and four 12" subwoofers. It requires a 2 way crossover with steep slopes and the ability to delay speakers to get them aligned correctly. Just adding bass is not the point, it is getting to realistic bass. No speaker that I have ever heard had realistic bass down to 20 Hz, not a Wilson, Magico, Magniplanar, or Apogee. It takes a specialized driver in a very heavy stiff enclosure and a lot of power. You could use one really big one but IMHO it is easier to live with multiple smaller ones than one huge one. In my case it is absolutely necessary. IMHO if you are going to add subwoofers wait until you can do it right. It can be very frustrating if you don't and waste a lot of your time.
@erik_squires , forget about simulations. Measure actual setups and see what they do in reality. A simulation can not possible cover all the variables involve like what frequency the walls resonate at. Are the subs well matched or are they 90 degrees out of phase with the main speakers. Why do some people think their subwoofers sound better 180 degrees out of phase? One sub may do fine in an 8 X 10 foot room or as fine as you can get in a room that small which is not very. Do not make up your mind on someone's idea of what a simulation should be like.