This is a very common problem. Our hearing is very sensitive at 3 kHz. Most of the time if you turn the volume down the sibilance goes away. Our ear's frequency response changes with frequency. Google Fletcher- Munson to learn more.
The only piece of equipment that can make this better or worse is the loudspeaker. You can sometimes change the frequency response of the system by changing the toe-in of the speaker. Early reflection to the side and rear of the speaker can make this worse, deadening those areas can help. If you like to listen at louder levels you have to be able to EQ the treble down. I put a filter at 15 kHz with a very small Q. I can move it up and down with volume to compensate. The BBC uses a notch filter at 3 kHz creating what they call the Grundy curve which neutralizes the sibilance associated with female voices, violins and horns.
You will be wasting money turning over equipment randomly. The best EQ is digital. If your system is all analog Schiit makes a nice little analog EQ unit.