RIP Dad Elgordo


Well it has been a year today since my dad Donald Laby passed away and it hasn’t gotten any easier for me or my family.

My father was the greatest man I have ever known. He always knew how to say the right things when I had problems. He taught me to be an honest, loving, good person, and to always do what I think is right, no matter what the cost.

He was into High Fidelity Stereo and taught me the balance of sound. He was always turning me on to good music and helped me in my quest to become a better musician. I have had many great experiences with music from violin to cello to voice to guitar, tenor banjo, keys and mandolin. I could not have done any of it without his support.

My dad was also a wonderful grandfather to my niece and nephew always opening their eyes to different possibilities, showing them photography and playing them songs on the stereo. He helped with their homework and kissed boo boos. I’ll never forget how he would look at them just imaging their own possibilities.

He showed me the ropes of life to the fullest extent and I know he is learning the ropes of the after life so when I’m done here, he can be by my side once again to help with the next process.

I can’t say how important it is to tell the people closest to you how much you love them.
Just do it. Tell everyone you care about just how much they mean to you and how your life is better because they are a part of it!
mandocarrie

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It's never easy to dealing with a lose, be it your own or that of someone elses. When its "your time" to go through, it seems that no matter how hard it is to cope from day to day, oddly enough, its the memories of the years previous you spent with the loved one that keep you going.

I know your pain all too well. Only consolation I have is time and a lot of prayer. Time heals and GOD hears. It may not seem like much right now, but it works if you allow it.

I haven't been on the gon for long so I haven't had the pleasure to correspond or debate with your father. What I do know is that it would make him proud for you continue on.

You and your family is truly in our thoughts and prayers.
I don't know you from Adam, but I know where you are; I've been there before. If you ever need someone to just listen, in all sincerity, shoot me an email!

Craig
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